Mark’s 2011 Watchtower Memorial Experience

How the Watchtower is changing focus:

The Memorial is one thing that Jehovah’s Witnesses celebrate that has so much relevance and is even more inescapable now. It’s even more fated now than ever before. Why is this so?

“Mark,” a former JW from our Downey Ex-JW Meetup, received an invitation at his door three weeks before the Memorial.  When that Sunday evening April 17th approached, Mark decided that he would attend.  The event was held in a public school’s auditorium.

When he arrived, it was already crowded, ushers were directing everyone in.  He had to walk a distance from where he parked to get to the door.  When he arrived, it was very crowded with plenty of hustle and bustle.  As he walked toward the seats, he realized that no one has greeted him.  He found that very strange.  As he looked for a seat, he saw seats next to an older couple and he asked if there was a seat available, toward the back.  Still no one has greeted him.  He dressed business casual and brought his own Bible to make it obvious that he was a visitor.

What disturbed him was that song #8, “The Lord’s Evening Meal,” that he was formerly familiar with, is not the same melody anymore.  However, the most disturbing thing was that the song they used did not contain any words describing the symbolism of the bread and the wine.  The words of the new song seemed to water-down the very essence of why they were having this “Memorial.”  This new song, in Mark’s opinion, did not seem spiritually moving and was more like a “jingle” than a song of worship, and inappropriate for this occasion.

The talk was ordinary as it began, but Mark began to notice how the Watchtower spin focused mostly on who were the “heavenly class” rather than the Passover’s deliverance from bondage. They did use scripture to try to prove the Watchtower’s position on their belief.

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Memorial section added

We’ve added a new section to the website that will contain remembrances of friends and family that have left us to go to their reward. There you will find recent articles first published here about Kim Roth and Steve McLain.

Our webmaster and fellow group member, John Hoyle, has also added a short article about Raymond Franz who passed away last May. It includes links to longer and more complete biographies of Mr. Franz and his history.

In the future, we will most likely publish any new memorials on our home page first and then move them over to be indexed on the larger Memorial section. Eventually we may also include brief biographies of other significant individuals who have been a part of the Watchtower Society or among its critics.

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New website features announced

Link to Freeminds.org

We are pleased to announce that we are adding new features to our website that should be helpful to our members and visitors.

We are now providing an extensive list of quality links to helpful and friendly websites. Some of these recommended websites offer information resources and documentation. Others offer recovery services and support. A few go to Christian ministries or church websites for those of you who might like to rediscover Christianity and would like to find welcoming congregations to assist you.

You can find most links in the sidebar. We will eventually add an index page that lists even more sites for you to visit, plus brief descriptions of each site and its sources.

If you’ve found a quality website that promotes Christian values or provides helpful information in that would be of interest to former Jehovah’s Witnesses, please email your recommendation to Cynthia or refer to them in the comment form at the end of this article.

We also offer automated translation to our Spanish language readers. Just click on the second flag (Spain) and wait a second, and the page you are on will be translated for you.

Click Flag of Spain in sidebar to translate page into Spanish.

The translation will not be perfect, but it should help you understand the meaning and intent of the article.

Please let us know if we should add additional languages. We have several available to us, but translation puts a heavy burden on our website’s server so we must limit the selections somewhat. We are open to your suggestions.

Since this new version of our website has been online our readership has become worldwide and is expanding daily. We’re glad that our little group has generated so much interest from the outside world. More on this later…

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A Chance Encounter

My Chance Encounter with JWs at the Door

Sometime around 1988 or 1989, my doorbell rang and it was a couple of Jehovah’s Witnesses. As I opened my door, there stood two young ladies who appeared to be in their early twenties. One girl had short, wavy blond hair. The other was a Hispanic looking girl with long dark hair.

Randy Watters wrote a very good brochure called Opening the Closed Mind. It describes a strategy to use when speaking to JWs by using a “questioning” approach – rather than inundating them with information. His approach is designed to make JWs think, rather than giving them information they will only reject and experience “cognitive dissonance” with.

Since I rarely get JWs at the door, I thought this would be a good time to try out these questions on these gals at the door. In fact, I had memorized these questions and was eager to see how they would respond. The blond girl spoke first and introduced herself along with her field service partner. “Hi, my name is____ and this is _____ and we are here today to show you the Watchtower and Awake! magazines.”

I looked at these girls and said, “I know that you are Jehovah’s Witnesses and I’ve read your magazines before. But do you mind if I ask you a few questions?” The blond girl agreed.

I asked her the first question. “Do you believe the Bible was written for all people?” She gave a response which I knew was a lie. She said “Yes,” but we all know that JWs believe the Bible is an “organizational book” and applies only to their organization. I asked her the second question, “Do you believe that Christians have always existed in the last 2000 years?” To which her answer was “Yes.”

I probably got through about five or six more questions from Opening the Closed Mind. The other girl with the dark hair finally piped up and asked, “How many more questions do you have?” I told her I was just asking questions out of curiosity because I wanted to understand what they believed. Her response back to me that they weren’t interested in answering any questions, and they were only interested in finding converts to their religion. She also said that if I wasn’t interested in studying to become a JW, then they would leave. So I told her that no, I wasn’t interested in becoming a JW (little did they know that I was an ex JW), but I just wanted to understand their beliefs. The dark haired girl then said that they would be on their way. I thanked them for stopping by and told them that they would be in my prayers.

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